Symptoms of Parental Alienation.
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Educational : Audio Courses by Dr. Bone
Used by parents, lawyers and mental health professionals these courses are available for immediate download on a host of subjects pertaining to Parental Alienation. Each course offers Dr. Bone's detailed insight into the legal, emotional and strategic issues regarding Parental Alienation. click for more information
Educational : Articles and Papers by Dr. Bone
Available for immediate download these articles and papers have been an invaluable resource to those dealing with the issues regarding Parental Alientaion. click for more information
Educational : Teleseminars by Dr. Bone
Regularly attended by parents, live via the web, Dr. Bone's teleseminars are scheduled throughout the calendar year. click here to receive an invitation to the next teleseminar event
Educational : Conferences and Workshops by Dr. Bone
For groups and organizations, nationally and internationally, Dr. Bone is available to speak at your next event. click here to schedule your next conference
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Individual : Consultation with Dr. Bone
One-on-one communication with Dr. Bone. Below is an overview of the ways Dr. Bone has helped many in handling their Parental Alienation cases. Each case is unique though, so please feel free to schedule a confidential phone call with Dr. Bone to review how he may be able to help your case or answer any questions you may have. There is a charge for individual consultation.
Individual Consultation, Step by Step:
A typical step by step procedure of how Dr. Bone approaches each case.
Step 1: Initial Meeting with Client.
The first step is usually a phone conversation between Dr. Bone and a parent and/or attorney. Given the capabilities of today's communicative environment, these meetings are primarily conducted via telephone. This discussion is completely confidential and includes anything the client may want to discuss. Dr. Bone will be able to provide specific suggestions for your situation and be able to explain how/when/where his involvement can improve your court hearing / evaluation / testimony / case outcome. Dr. Bone’s experience and awareness of the complexities of PA cases will become even more evident in this first conversation. This first step can go a long way in helping to create a better overall outcome for your case.
Step 2: Review of Materials
Dr. Bone will review anything you can provide to help him fully understand and get up-to-speed in your case. The list of materials may include evaluations, court orders, letters, emails and literally anything that is pertinent to the case. The extensive amount of materials that accumulate in cases involving Parental Alienation can be very daunting but Dr. Bone is quite familiar with this aspect of these types of cases.
Step 3: Identify Key Points
Here’s where a thorough understanding of how Parental Alienation cases differ than others seen in Family Court is vital. It is very easy for the court, mental-health professionals, lawyers and clients to become overwhelmed, overly-focused or simply become diverted by details that are immaterial in reaching resolutions. Think of Dr. Bone as a fresh pair of eyes in the investigation of your case... eyes that are experienced in seeing-through the facade that alienators are quite adept at creating. He is very experienced at weeding through a mountain of papers and identifying key points that will truly get the court’s attention. The goal is to accumulate a compact version of the case and again, find those specific items that will be most critcal to helping the court to see the authentic history of your case. This part of the preparation of your case can save time and money. Any other professionals brought into the case or those you have already hired will have access to not just a condensed version of events, but a list of items to remain focused on. Too often the court and everyone involved seems to get side-tracked by unimportant details that waste precious time and resources. Dr. Bone understands that while these “unimportant details” may be very emotionally important to a mother or father experiencing them... they are often however, irrelevant to the court and to helping your case get resolution.
Step 4: Develop Strategies
This step is where your case will change direction, regain focus and find positive footing amidst the drama of Parental Alienation. The goal is to eliminate distractions that alienating parents create and help the court see the authentic version of your case. Dr. Bone works directly with a client to develop strategies that work to break-through the false-front presented by an alienating parent. He will assemble a team of professionals to work on your case under his direction and recommendations OR he will work alongside the professionals you have already hired. Dr. Bone feels that a “team” approach to presenting these cases is extremely important. Strategies will only work if everyone involved in presenting your case is fully prepared to implement them.
Individual Consultation, Goals
Video: Filling the Gap Between the Attorney and the Parent
Individual Consultation,
Services Explained:
It is nearly impossible to list all of the many services Dr. Bone can provide. Below is a partial list of some examples.
• Review of Materials
A thorough review of materials is crucial for the understanding of the strategies that should be incorporated into your case.
• Selection of Professionals
Whether you have already hired an attorney, or other professionals, or you are in need of recommendations for these services, Dr. Bone can help. Over the years, Dr. Bone has developed networks of experienced professionals who are knowledgeable in the areas of parental alienation. Through careful interviewing and screening, he can help you find professionals local to your area. This “initial filtering” process may help a parent who is dealing with alienation avoid falling into the “blind spots” of attorneys and mental health professionals who may simply be unfamiliar with the peculiarities of parental alienation. This initial screening of professionals is a critical step which has direct impact onto outcome.
• Consultation with the Attorney
Competent attorneys welcome (and are not threatened by) consultative input. When one considers that a busy family lawyer becomes involved in parental alienation in a relatively small percentage of their cases, it is easy to understand how it would be impossible for even the most competent family lawyer to keep up with the latest litigation developments. In addition to this purely “educational” purpose, the consultant can also help assist the lawyer with the development of case strategy, by incorporating knowledge on the subject and experience in what has been successful in other cases.
Most experienced attorneys will be the first to recognize the level of complexity and specificity that is involved in successfully litigating a parental alienation case. In the capacity of consultant, Dr. Bone typically reviews documents, pleadings and reports, and makes specific recommendations regarding expert testimony, review of expert work product, and consultation with experts perhaps already appointed on your case. Through this strategy, the legal system becomes educated about parental alienation one case at a time, and leaves in its wake newly educated professionals and parents.
Litigating a complex family law case has been described in the following terms: imagine a jigsaw puzzle with a thousand pieces. The attorney is only allowed to use ten of the pieces, yet must accurately convey the picture of the puzzle to the court using only these ten pieces. The process of selecting which ten pieces is enormously complex and vexing. “Breaking the code” of which pieces to select, and which not to become distracted by, is a skill based on a level of experience that can only be developed by being “in the trenches” of the courtroom for many years. Dr. Bone has served in all of the capacities for which he now consults. After all, even the most seasoned and experienced family lawyer has only litigated cases involving Parental Alienatio (PA) in a nfraction of his or her cases. Virtually all of Dr. Bone’s experience is born of dealing only with these cases in multiple states.
• Review and Trial Preparation for Extant Expert Witness Work, Preparing Witnesses, Development of Cross-examination Questions for Adverse Witnesses and Related Activities
In most ongoing litigation, there are already existing mental health professionals involved with the case. The experienced consultant can help the attorney with critique of adverse witnesses as expressed in the analysis of expert reports, analysis of past testimony, and the development of cross-examination questioning, as reflected by the current standard of care. Additionally, the consultant can work with mental health professionals also involved in the case who may not be knowledgeable of the latest research and related matters regarding PA.
• Litigation Strategies
One of the most valuable functions served by the consultant is the development of general case strategy and determining which points are most important to emphasize and which are not. One of the biggest challenges the family attorney faces is reducing huge amounts of information and presenting it in a way that tells the case’s story in the most compelling terms. If PA is not involved in a case, this challenge is still present. However, if it is involved, the challenge is even greater. The likelihood that the case presentation and focus may become distracted increases and the danger of fragmentation increases dramatically. Alienation cases typically have voluminous amounts of information that must be organized and presented in a concise manner.
Cases involving PA commonly have mental health professionals already involved who may be otherwise competent, but naïve to Parental Alienation. Such therapists may find themselves treating a child who has become alienated from one parent due to the actions of the other parent. These therapists will very often side with the alienated child’s resistance to seeing the unwanted parent and believe they are “protecting” the child from the other parent when in fact there is no danger. In PA cases, these professionals become “adverse witnesses” and therefore unwittingly support the alienation. In the context of litigation, the attorney for the alienating parent is often able to persuade these therapists to offer an opinion that supports the child’s not seeing that other parent, even though they have never even spoken to that parent. Once a therapist has done this, he or she has typically committed significant ethical errors, which should diminish their credibility. However, if the attorney for the alienated parent is not aware of these ethical intricacies, this therapist’s opinion could go unchallenged and potentially do great damage to the case. Exposing these ethical gaffs is extremely important to the truth of the case as it is understood by the Judge; however, these types of ethical errors often go unchallenged. The consultant, seasoned in PA, would not allow this process to go forward unchallenged.
• Consultation With and Training of Mental Health Professionals Involved in the Case
In becoming involved with parental alienation cases in multiple states, it is evident how many potentially good, yet alienation naive clinicians are available. Years of experience have taught that well intentioned and otherwise competent (yet untrained in the area of alienation) professionals have unwittingly done harm, and have inadvertently worked in support of the alienation.
Ironically enough, competent therapists, but inexperienced in working with alienated children, will often support the alienation. Likewise, evaluators naïve to PA will assume the allegations of abuse to be valid and accurate and will not have the tools to effectively evaluate this and to rule on it. Therefore, finding a parental alienation-savvy evaluator is critical.
Educational and Individual Services
Educational : Audio Courses by Dr. Bone
Used by parents, lawyers and mental health professionals these courses are available for immediate download on a host of subjects pertaining to Parental Alienation. Each course offers Dr. Bone's detailed insight into the legal, emotional and strategic issues regarding Parental Alienation. click for more information
Educational : Articles and Papers by Dr. Bone
Available for immediate download these articles and papers have been an invaluable resource to those dealing with the issues regarding Parental Alientaion. click for more information
Educational : Teleseminars by Dr. Bone
Regularly attended by parents, live via the web, Dr. Bone's teleseminars are scheduled throughout the calendar year. click here to receive an invitation to the next teleseminar event
Educational : Conferences and Workshops by Dr. Bone
For groups and organizations, nationally and internationally, Dr. Bone is available to speak at your next event. click here to schedule your next conference
____________________________________
Individual : Consultation with Dr. Bone
One-on-one communication with Dr. Bone. Below is an overview of the ways Dr. Bone has helped many in handling their Parental Alienation cases. Each case is unique though, so please feel free to schedule a confidential phone call with Dr. Bone to review how he may be able to help your case or answer any questions you may have. There is a charge for individual consultation.
Individual Consultation, Step by Step:
A typical step by step procedure of how Dr. Bone approaches each case.
Step 1: Initial Meeting with Client.
The first step is usually a phone conversation between Dr. Bone and a parent and/or attorney. Given the capabilities of today's communicative environment, these meetings are primarily conducted via telephone. This discussion is completely confidential and includes anything the client may want to discuss. Dr. Bone will be able to provide specific suggestions for your situation and be able to explain how/when/where his involvement can improve your court hearing / evaluation / testimony / case outcome. Dr. Bone’s experience and awareness of the complexities of PA cases will become even more evident in this first conversation. This first step can go a long way in helping to create a better overall outcome for your case.
Step 2: Review of Materials
Dr. Bone will review anything you can provide to help him fully understand and get up-to-speed in your case. The list of materials may include evaluations, court orders, letters, emails and literally anything that is pertinent to the case. The extensive amount of materials that accumulate in cases involving Parental Alienation can be very daunting but Dr. Bone is quite familiar with this aspect of these types of cases.
Step 3: Identify Key Points
Here’s where a thorough understanding of how Parental Alienation cases differ than others seen in Family Court is vital. It is very easy for the court, mental-health professionals, lawyers and clients to become overwhelmed, overly-focused or simply become diverted by details that are immaterial in reaching resolutions. Think of Dr. Bone as a fresh pair of eyes in the investigation of your case... eyes that are experienced in seeing-through the facade that alienators are quite adept at creating. He is very experienced at weeding through a mountain of papers and identifying key points that will truly get the court’s attention. The goal is to accumulate a compact version of the case and again, find those specific items that will be most critcal to helping the court to see the authentic history of your case. This part of the preparation of your case can save time and money. Any other professionals brought into the case or those you have already hired will have access to not just a condensed version of events, but a list of items to remain focused on. Too often the court and everyone involved seems to get side-tracked by unimportant details that waste precious time and resources. Dr. Bone understands that while these “unimportant details” may be very emotionally important to a mother or father experiencing them... they are often however, irrelevant to the court and to helping your case get resolution.
Step 4: Develop Strategies
This step is where your case will change direction, regain focus and find positive footing amidst the drama of Parental Alienation. The goal is to eliminate distractions that alienating parents create and help the court see the authentic version of your case. Dr. Bone works directly with a client to develop strategies that work to break-through the false-front presented by an alienating parent. He will assemble a team of professionals to work on your case under his direction and recommendations OR he will work alongside the professionals you have already hired. Dr. Bone feels that a “team” approach to presenting these cases is extremely important. Strategies will only work if everyone involved in presenting your case is fully prepared to implement them.
Individual Consultation, Goals
Video: Filling the Gap Between the Attorney and the Parent
Individual Consultation,
Services Explained:
It is nearly impossible to list all of the many services Dr. Bone can provide. Below is a partial list of some examples.
• Review of Materials
A thorough review of materials is crucial for the understanding of the strategies that should be incorporated into your case.
• Selection of Professionals
Whether you have already hired an attorney, or other professionals, or you are in need of recommendations for these services, Dr. Bone can help. Over the years, Dr. Bone has developed networks of experienced professionals who are knowledgeable in the areas of parental alienation. Through careful interviewing and screening, he can help you find professionals local to your area. This “initial filtering” process may help a parent who is dealing with alienation avoid falling into the “blind spots” of attorneys and mental health professionals who may simply be unfamiliar with the peculiarities of parental alienation. This initial screening of professionals is a critical step which has direct impact onto outcome.
• Consultation with the Attorney
Competent attorneys welcome (and are not threatened by) consultative input. When one considers that a busy family lawyer becomes involved in parental alienation in a relatively small percentage of their cases, it is easy to understand how it would be impossible for even the most competent family lawyer to keep up with the latest litigation developments. In addition to this purely “educational” purpose, the consultant can also help assist the lawyer with the development of case strategy, by incorporating knowledge on the subject and experience in what has been successful in other cases.
Most experienced attorneys will be the first to recognize the level of complexity and specificity that is involved in successfully litigating a parental alienation case. In the capacity of consultant, Dr. Bone typically reviews documents, pleadings and reports, and makes specific recommendations regarding expert testimony, review of expert work product, and consultation with experts perhaps already appointed on your case. Through this strategy, the legal system becomes educated about parental alienation one case at a time, and leaves in its wake newly educated professionals and parents.
Litigating a complex family law case has been described in the following terms: imagine a jigsaw puzzle with a thousand pieces. The attorney is only allowed to use ten of the pieces, yet must accurately convey the picture of the puzzle to the court using only these ten pieces. The process of selecting which ten pieces is enormously complex and vexing. “Breaking the code” of which pieces to select, and which not to become distracted by, is a skill based on a level of experience that can only be developed by being “in the trenches” of the courtroom for many years. Dr. Bone has served in all of the capacities for which he now consults. After all, even the most seasoned and experienced family lawyer has only litigated cases involving Parental Alienatio (PA) in a nfraction of his or her cases. Virtually all of Dr. Bone’s experience is born of dealing only with these cases in multiple states.
• Review and Trial Preparation for Extant Expert Witness Work, Preparing Witnesses, Development of Cross-examination Questions for Adverse Witnesses and Related Activities
In most ongoing litigation, there are already existing mental health professionals involved with the case. The experienced consultant can help the attorney with critique of adverse witnesses as expressed in the analysis of expert reports, analysis of past testimony, and the development of cross-examination questioning, as reflected by the current standard of care. Additionally, the consultant can work with mental health professionals also involved in the case who may not be knowledgeable of the latest research and related matters regarding PA.
• Litigation Strategies
One of the most valuable functions served by the consultant is the development of general case strategy and determining which points are most important to emphasize and which are not. One of the biggest challenges the family attorney faces is reducing huge amounts of information and presenting it in a way that tells the case’s story in the most compelling terms. If PA is not involved in a case, this challenge is still present. However, if it is involved, the challenge is even greater. The likelihood that the case presentation and focus may become distracted increases and the danger of fragmentation increases dramatically. Alienation cases typically have voluminous amounts of information that must be organized and presented in a concise manner.
Cases involving PA commonly have mental health professionals already involved who may be otherwise competent, but naïve to Parental Alienation. Such therapists may find themselves treating a child who has become alienated from one parent due to the actions of the other parent. These therapists will very often side with the alienated child’s resistance to seeing the unwanted parent and believe they are “protecting” the child from the other parent when in fact there is no danger. In PA cases, these professionals become “adverse witnesses” and therefore unwittingly support the alienation. In the context of litigation, the attorney for the alienating parent is often able to persuade these therapists to offer an opinion that supports the child’s not seeing that other parent, even though they have never even spoken to that parent. Once a therapist has done this, he or she has typically committed significant ethical errors, which should diminish their credibility. However, if the attorney for the alienated parent is not aware of these ethical intricacies, this therapist’s opinion could go unchallenged and potentially do great damage to the case. Exposing these ethical gaffs is extremely important to the truth of the case as it is understood by the Judge; however, these types of ethical errors often go unchallenged. The consultant, seasoned in PA, would not allow this process to go forward unchallenged.
• Consultation With and Training of Mental Health Professionals Involved in the Case
In becoming involved with parental alienation cases in multiple states, it is evident how many potentially good, yet alienation naive clinicians are available. Years of experience have taught that well intentioned and otherwise competent (yet untrained in the area of alienation) professionals have unwittingly done harm, and have inadvertently worked in support of the alienation.
Ironically enough, competent therapists, but inexperienced in working with alienated children, will often support the alienation. Likewise, evaluators naïve to PA will assume the allegations of abuse to be valid and accurate and will not have the tools to effectively evaluate this and to rule on it. Therefore, finding a parental alienation-savvy evaluator is critical.